Our swinging adventures really take off in this episode! We were about 4 months into our journey and had jumped in to our new lifestyle with both feet!
In this episode we discuss our first visits to Caliente – a local clothing-optional resort that embraces the lifestyle community – and find out why we now consider Cali our “home away from home”.
We talk about going on a date with a new couple and end up at an on-premise sex club – Eyz Wide Shut! Did we finally have a successful full swap?? Listen to find out!
Find out how we were setting up and going on lots of meet & greet dates with other couples and single men. Listen to the hysterical details about a meet & greet date with a new single guy that did not go quite as we had hoped! (We STILL laugh everytime we listen to this story!)
In this episode we discuss:
- our first two visits to one of our favorite clubs
- pushing through our own boundaries and being voyeurs who then become the exhibitionists
- our first date with a couple we met at a meet & greet event which turned into ….
- our first visit to an on-premise sex club
- our philosophy for meeting new potential playmates through meet & greet dates
- why Myrina can’t be trusted … AGAIN (hmmmm, I sense a theme)
- the MOST hilarious story of what is probably our craziest meet & greet date with a single guy yet!
“What a slut! Little did I know what a great role model she is!”
~ Myrina, Episode 5 [32:40]
QUESTION OF THE DAY:
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SHOW NOTES
- Shout out to our awesome listeners! [3:31]
- Coronavirus and our (non) playdates [4:27]
- Our first two trips to Caliente [9:00]
- AUDIO CLIP – recorded Memorial Day Weekend, 2018 [13:00]
- Nudist etiquette and “ass juice” [17:00]
- Some reasons we love Caliente [19:00]
- Why Myrina likes tall men [20:00]
- “We want to be like that when we grow up!” [23:40]
- Our second visit to Caliente [25:02]
- Our first view of the conversation pool at Caliente – “There were people having sex!” [26:10]
- “Let’s go get towels and get naked” [27:50]
- “When you’re not used to that environment at all and you look down and you see all these people, it was like a porn movie but you’re like standing there watching it being filmed. And then we decided to go ahead and be IN the porn movie.” [29:08]
- We attend another lifestyle mixer in downtown Tampa and meet a FANTASTIC couple [37:40]
- What a risk it was for us personally [31:50]
- “What a slut! Little did I know what a great role model she is!” [32:40]
- A first date with a new couple (we end up at an on-premise sex club!) [39:00]
- Our first experience at Eyz Wide Shut – we describe the club and our impressions of the facility [39:50]
- “I’ve got a skanky bone in me.” [41:20]
- “I was thinking more like at the zoo, in the gorilla enclosure and observe them in their habitat.” [42:15]
- We ended up in the Wild West room [44:00]
- “It was surreal. It was like you couldn’t even believe it was happening because it was something that you only ever see somewhere else.” [49:29]
- “It’s smarmy; it’s skanky. But sometimes you like a little skank.” [52:49]
- A review of our timeline to date at that time – we were “en fuego” [53:35]
- AUDIO CLIP – recorded June 2018 [55:34]
- “You got in the car and said ‘Do I have to do everything?’.” [57:21]
- “I was on a sex high, big time! … “ [1:00:57]
- We were really on this roll, we were meeting a lot of people … [1:14:23]
- It took us couple of months to get momentum going [1:15:35]
- We talk about “SLS math” and how to calculate it! [1:16:10]
- “When you go out on a meet & greet with someone, you’re sitting down at a table – and sure, it’s kinda like an interview “am I going to go to bed with this person”, which is bizarre. But once you get past that, there’s a comaraderie there, right away.” [1:21:25]
- Wrap-up [1:23:00}
ADDITIONAL RESOURCES
- Caliente Club & Resort, Land O’Lakes, FL
- Eyz Wide Shut, Tampa, FL
- Accidental Swingers episode 4 talks about our experience at another local clothing-optional resort, Paradise Lakes