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Bumbling our way through paradise!

The accidental swingers

Bumbling Our Way Through Paradise

We are Myrina and Tristan, aka The Accidental Swingers. When we started our journey into non-monogamy in 2018, we decided to record and chronicle our own adventures as we found our way into, and worked through, the swinging lifestyle. Now we want to share those candid recordings, talk about the lessons we learned, the fun we had, and the amazing people we have met along the way. Come laugh along with us as we relive our adventures, and some misadventures, as The Accidental Swingers!

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⚜️ Naughty N’awlins 2025 ⚜️

⚜️ Naughty N’awlins 2025 ⚜️

August 23, 2024

We're headed back to the Big Easy for another Naughty N'awlins - our favorite event of…

Swinkation 2024

Swinkation 2024

June 24, 2024

Accidental Swingers and Swinky Life Take Over Hedo! Join Phoenix, Myrina, Crimson, and Tristan for a…

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We accidentally fell into the swinger lifestyle & now podcast about it! Passionate about non-monogamy, sex-positivity, kink, alternative love & more❤️

We decided to evacuate north and inland a bit. Abo

We decided to evacuate north and inland a bit. About 2 1/2 hrs from home. We’re safe, have power (for now) and most of all safe! (Yep, said it twice!) Grabbing a bite at a restaurant before we hole up. Everyone we know who is in the storm - stay safe and dry!! ❤️
#milton #evacuate #accidentalswingers #enm #poly #kink #hurricanefun

Happy Birthday Crimson! It’s been a f’ed up we

Happy Birthday Crimson! It’s been a f’ed up week and an f’ed month with a whole lotta crazy fun added in! With the storm, the birthday weekend ending up being quiet and very low-key but we are happy and healthy and THATS cause for celebration!
#birthdayweekend #adultfun #swingers #kinkyfun #enm

Erotic Dreams Resort Hotel in Palm Springs was a s

Erotic Dreams Resort Hotel in Palm Springs was a surprise destination on my trip to LA. (My wonderful tour guide was so accommodating to take me out for a visit!) What a treat! The resort is really cool & quaint. (I met an amazingly beautiful woman who recognized me and came up to say hello! Hello beautiful lady ! You know who you are!! ❤️❤️❤️)
EDRH is such a cute property! 2 pools and 2 hot tubs. 2 playrooms (the bad pic is of the dungeon playroom, bad pic but you still get the idea) and a sex maze!! lol. Small crowd on a post-holiday weekend but everyone seemed very nice. We stayed the day and even enjoyed some of the amenities.
Next trip to LA will (hopefully) include a little more lifestyle exploration! 🤞🏻
#palmsprings #palmspringslifestyle #accidentalswingers #swingers #adultfun #lifestyle #enm #kink #podcastersofinstagram #sexyfun

Final days in Los Angeles. I had no expectations o

Final days in Los Angeles. I had no expectations of the trip but I think I fell in love with the area!! (At least for one week! lol)

Hit Venice Beach for the sunset and to dip my toes in the Pacific. Went to @flapperscomedy to see some amazing comedians, especially my friend Lahna Turner @lahnaturnerr ! Then a brief stop at @thecomedystore and after, my first In & Out burger (VERY appropriate for this swinger!)!!

I also attended the screening of the winning films for the 48 Hr Film Project @48hourfilmla @48hourfilmproject. (CONGRATULATIONS to all the amazing films & winners!! ) As well as attended a screening and the filming of the comedy panel at the Jorjezian Film Festival!

I really had an amazing time in LA. Thank you to my wonderful host & the great people I met. I’ll be back!

#sunnycalifornia #californication #caligirl #accidentalswingers #swingers #adultfun #alternativelifestyle #kink #nonmonogamy

EXCITING NEWS at Caliente this weekend! TLDR – pla

EXCITING NEWS at Caliente this weekend! TLDR - play spaces are BACK!!! Come play with us this Thursday, Friday and Saturday!! 😈❤️🎉

From Facebook - Caliente Fan Page (unofficial)

Get ready to play at Caliente as there are several new fun spaces to enjoy.

Caliente just let us know about the three new fun spaces and here are the details about each:
The Conversation Pool is open for play after sunset any day of the week for couples and singles.
The new “Social Gazebo” is near the Sand Volleyball Courts near the bathrooms and is available 24hours. This is NOT a play space. It is a social space for chatting with new friends.
The Love Shack is where the Tiki Bar Stage was. There are three beds and curtains there. It is currently open for play (Couples or Singles) on Fridays and Saturdays after dark until 2-3am depending on use. Please clean after yourselves, and change the sheets with the new ones provided.

COMING SOON (estimated to open on 9/12/24- the same weekend as our fan page celebration-yay)
“The Lounge” located in the space that was Rouge which is downstairs in the Clubhouse across from Lust Boutique. Open Thursday & Fridays 11pm-2am and Saturdays 12am-3am. Increased hours are planned for the future. The Lounge is for Couples and Escorted Single Males. The outer check in area will have some tables and allow you to enjoy a beverage. That front area is not for play but just sexy conversation. Once you enter the inner area leave your drinks, clothes, and phones behind using the lockers provided.
There are 3-6 rooms planned at the opening. It may feel a little more free-form than Rouge was. There will be attendants to help. Changes to the format will occur as this space develops.
“This is just the beginning. Caliente plans to add and grow these spaces over time as they learn more. Small start, big future!”
#calienteresort #whipsandchains #adultfun #swingers #accidentalswingers #kink #kinkyfun #alternativelifestyle #enm

Last night was the kickoff to the Jorjezian Film F

Last night was the kickoff to the Jorjezian Film Festival where I was asked to join in the ribbon cutting and participate in the opening panel to talk about podcasting in the entertainment industry. The after party was at @thebarneysbeaneryburbank and what an amazing group of folks!
A trip to Palm Springs and another day of film festival activities are still on tap for the remainder of the trip!
#funincalifornia #californiadreamin #accidentalswingers #adulfun #makingmagic #swingers #swingerlifestyle #kink #alternativerelationship #alternativelifestyle #podcast #podcastersofinstagram #swinkylife

I’m out in LA (first time EVER!) for a work trip

I’m out in LA (first time EVER!) for a work trip and boy has it been a whirlwind so far! I held a podcaster meeting at Apogee Studio in Santa Monica and had the awesome pleasure of meeting & talking to Grammy-winning music producer Bob Clearmountain, I attended a sound and tech event last night where I also met Oscar-winning & Grammy-winning sound producers and engineers (the resumes of work these folks have done is astounding) and I also got a personal tour of Kevin Hart’s HartBeat Studios & Dream Magic studios (snuck in for a quick pic at Kevin’s desk for his Sirius XM radio show and at Kevin Garnett’s Certified show)! Tonight I attend a film festival and guest on a panel to talk about podcasting in the entertainment industry! More pics soon!

#ilovela #californiadreamin #accidentalswingers #lifestylepodcast #podcastersofinstagram #alternativelifestyle #adultfun #workation

Taking a break from dumpster filling duties to enj

Taking a break from dumpster filling duties to enjoy one of our favorite sports - #collegefootball Woo Hoo! #gogators🐊🏈 #adultfun #accidentalswingers #enm #alternativelove

Can you guess our holiday weekend plans??? #decl

Can you guess our holiday weekend plans???

#declutter #minimize #declutteryourhome #throwitaway #deathcleaning #reclaimyourspace #downsize

EXPERIENCES * MEMORIES * EXCITEMENT * FUN The expe

EXPERIENCES * MEMORIES * EXCITEMENT * FUN
The experience of a lifetime awaits this holiday season at Hedonism II at Swinkation! We only have 8 rooms left in our block and Hedo is otherwise SOLD OUT right now!
Open to all swingers.
Open to all kinksters.
Open to ALL SWINKSTERS!
Let us guide you as your hosts for this chance to make unforgettable friendships, relationships and memories!
✅ Swimsuit optional snorkeling and sunset cruise? Check!
✅ Swimsuit optional waterfall escapades? Check!
✅ Sexy, sultry theme nights? Check!
✅ Workshops and seminars from some of the lifestyle's top educators, included? Check!
✅ Group beach play areas and other play spaces? Check!
✅ Late night sexy hot-tubbing and pool parties with your new friends? Check!
✅ An endless list of food, beverages, resort activities, fun, music, dancing, parties? Check!
The list goes on and on! If you're interested but not sure you can commit, contact support@concations.com for additional information.

#hedonism #hedo #swinkylife #swinky #concations #kinky #kinkycaribbean #swingers #accidentalswingers #adultfun #lifestylefun #alternativelifestyle #nudevacation #nakedfun #clothingoptional #clothingoptionalresort

Spend some holiday time WITH US! Join us for Swink

Spend some holiday time WITH US! Join us for Swinkation '24 at Hedonism II in Jamaica @hedonismjamaica ... an adult vacation like no other!
Interested in swinging but not sure where to start?
Interested in kink but not sure where to start?
Have a foot in either - or both - camps and want to learn more about the other?
THIS TRIP IS FOR YOU!
Still time to save with early bird code SWINKY
Book at www.swinkation.com

#swinkation #swingers #kinksters #accidentalswingers #swinkylife #concations #hedo #hedonism #kinky #kink #enm #adultfun #nakedvacation #nakedholiday #sexyfun

I was scrolling through my pics today and saw this

I was scrolling through my pics today and saw this one. Youth and aging and “purpose in life” and “life is short” and all those things are so in the front of my mind right now. So to anyone else today that needed a little reminder … Youth Has No Age!! Just sayin’ ❤️

5 YEARS!!! Five years ago, Phoenix and I spent our

5 YEARS!!! Five years ago, Phoenix and I spent our first solo weekend together (@myrinastristan and @crimson.swinkylife had their first solo weekend as well) to see IF the magic and intensity that the 4 of us experienced with each other at @naughty_nawlins was due to true chemistry or was it just the “s3x high” from the event??
Five years later, the four of us celebrate, as our own couples, in ways that mean something for all of us.

One day I will write about it, but the love we all have for our spouses, and security of our marriages, allowed us, in our own ways, the freedom to explore love on a totally new and different level. We were free to explore and grow in love, in sexuality, and self-discovery.

Five years ago we all started on a journey that would shape our lives in truly unimaginable ways.
I love you Phoenix Phyre
I love you Tristan - it’s always been & will be you and I
I love you Crimson
I am a very VERY #luckywoman

TONIGHT 9PM Eastern! On the fence about going to S

TONIGHT 9PM Eastern! On the fence about going to Swinkation? Never been to Hedo before and want to know what it's like? Worried that you won't "fit in"? Or just want to learn more?
Join Myrina, Tristan, Phoenix and Crimson tonight for a live stream on YouTube and get ALL your questions answered!
Go to YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/accidentalswingers and click LIVE. We'll see you there!

Happy International Swingers Day! It's not all abo

Happy International Swingers Day! It's not all about swinging you know ... today we celebrate EVERYONE'S right to live and love the way that is authentic to them. Everyone's right to love who they love and live how they live. We celebrate ALL relationships today!⁠
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#love #lifestyle #authenticlove #authenticlife #swingers #accidentalswingers #swinkylife #ENM #adultfun #polyamory

JUST RELEASED Episode 54 Hedonism II in Jamaica is

JUST RELEASED Episode 54 Hedonism II in Jamaica is the recap of our first trip to to Hedo and the event we taught at Kinky Caribbean!

We talk about our experiences, excursions, the resort, the event, the people and the play! Find out if Tristan met his “goal” for the trip and “meet” a few of the attendees of Kinky Caribbean.

JOIN US for our next trip to Hedo for Swinkation ‘24 this December 14-21. Give yourselves your Christmas gift FIRST and spend a glorious week with all 4 of us in Jamaica! EARLY BIRD ENDS 8/20. Save $700 with Early Bird pricing AND code SWINKY.

Click bio for links to podcast and Swinkation or go to www.swinkation.com.

#hedo #hedonism #hedonism2 #swinkatio #swingers #accidentalswingers #swinky #swinkylife #kink #kinky #bdsm #poly #polyamory #alternativerelationships #lifestyle #adultlifestyle #nakedfun #nudevacation

Want to go away with us? 😈 How about Hedo in De

Want to go away with us? 😈 How about Hedo in December!?!? 🎄 Treat yourself to a sexy, adults-only, clothing-optional, stress-free, carefree vacation and give yourselves a sexy gift 🎁 to kick off your holiday season!

Join us this Wednesday at 9pm eastern/6pm pacific for a LIVE session and Q & A all about Swinkation. We will announce some of our presenters, talk about the sexy fun, workshops we have in store and will answer all your questions!
Join Tristan, Myrina, Crimson and Phoenix on YouTube AND in Jamaica!

#hedo #hedonist #hedonism #hedonism2 #swinkation #accidentalswingers #adultfun #lifestyle #swinger #nonmonogamy #polyamory #sexyvacation #nudevacation #swinky #swinkylife #kink #bdsm #kinkster

Summer Concert Series installment #3! Slash’s S.

Summer Concert Series installment #3! Slash’s S.E.R.P.E.N.T. concert. Oh my, what a treat for some amazing blues & rock & soul!! Such a wonderful way to spend a Saturday night in #clearwater at @thebaycaresound. (We’re starting to like this venue … going to have to check it out in any months OTHER THAN July & August!! 😓)

#summerconcertseries #serpent #slash #itshotoutside #accidentalswingers #adultfun #swingers #rhythmandblues #blues

Summer is “outdoor concert season” and we’re

Summer is “outdoor concert season” and we’re taking advantage of “the cheap seats” at @thebaycaresound for #UB40. Such an eclectic crowd here - ages ranging from under 10 to 80!! A relaxing way to spend a summer night in Clearwater!!
If you’re here and see us - be sure to say HI!! Tristan is wearing his pineapple shirt in case you don’t recognize him!! 😂🤣😂🤣
#summerconcert #clearwater #accidentalswingers #reggae #adultfun

✅ Lace, ✅ Corsets, ✅ Lingerie, ✅ Leather,

✅ Lace, ✅ Corsets, ✅ Lingerie, ✅ Leather, ✅ Whips & ✅ Chains. oh my!!! WANT MORE?!?! How about Sexy Couples Speed Dating?!? And a Friday Night Meet & Greet!?! JOIN US as we co-host this awesome weekend with Kimberly & Steve of the Caliente Facebook Fan Page "Unofficial" ⬇️ Check out ALL the weekend highlights ⬇️⁠
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Thursday Night - Ladies Night - Lace & Corsets Theme - ladies drink free from 8 - 10pm in the club⁠ (Which corset should I wear??)⁠
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Friday Night - Naughty Nighties Lingerie Theme⁠
Sexy Couples Speed Dating - meet other sexy couples in this fast-paced, flirty and fun event! Bring your Couples Cards (aka Slut Cards) to hand out to other sexy couples you meet!⁠
Friday Night Meet & Greet - stay after speed dating for the resort-wide Meet & Greet (keep those couples cards handy!)⁠
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Saturday Night - Whips & Chains Excite Me Theme⁠
Put on your kinkest kink and leather gear and join us at the club for a Sexy AF night at the Club!⁠
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#AccidentalSwingers #CalienteResort #NudeResort #ClothingOptional #ClothingOptionalResort #NakedFun #Swingers #SwingerPodcast #SwingerLifestyle #SexPodcast #NonMonogamy #OpenMarriage #OpenRelationship #SexPositive #SexualAttraction #threesome #Poly #Polyamorous #Polyamory #alternativelifestyle #monogamish #relationships #SwingerLife #HotWife #EthicalSlut #Kink #BDSM #SpotifyPodcast #iTunesPodcast #PodcastersOfInstagram

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