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Episode 15: The Accidental Boyfriend

Accidental and unexpected. Myrina’s relationship with a playmate heats up, especially as they spend more time getting to know each other between playdates. Their relationship transitions from playmates to lovers to boyfriend and girlfriend and Myrina and Tristan must face the first enormous obstacle in living and experiencing the swinger lifestyle on their terms.   […]

Episode 14: Adventures in Fantasyland

Adventures in Fantasyland

Sexy adventures. Deciding to push their boundaries a little further, Myrina and Tristan check another item off their “bucket” list with a visit to an adult bookstore and theater with another couple. But were they ready for all that this adventure had to offer?   Myrina and Tristan also discuss Myrina’s first real solo “date” […]

Episode 13: Managing expectations in Swinger Relationships

expectations versus reality

It was going to be awesome… Until it wasn’t. We’ve all done it. Built something up in our minds, just knowing how great the experience is going to be. The excitement. The buildup. The anticipation. And then, it falls apart. In episode 13 of the Accidental Swingers podcast, we share stories of dates that did […]

Episode 12: Tell Us What You Want

Let’s talk about fantasies. “How do I get my partner into swinging?”. This is the number one question we receive from listeners. We invited Dr. Justin Lehmiller, social psychologist and author of the book “Tell Me What You Want” to join us to talk about sexual fantasies, how to talk to your partner about your […]