Accidental and unexpected. Myrina’s relationship with a playmate heats up, especially as they spend more time getting to know each other between playdates. Their relationship transitions from playmates to lovers to boyfriend and girlfriend and Myrina and Tristan must face the first enormous obstacle in living and experiencing the swinger lifestyle on their terms. […]
Sexy adventures. Deciding to push their boundaries a little further, Myrina and Tristan check another item off their “bucket” list with a visit to an adult bookstore and theater with another couple. But were they ready for all that this adventure had to offer? Myrina and Tristan also discuss Myrina’s first real solo “date” […]
It was going to be awesome… Until it wasn’t. We’ve all done it. Built something up in our minds, just knowing how great the experience is going to be. The excitement. The buildup. The anticipation. And then, it falls apart. In episode 13 of the Accidental Swingers podcast, we share stories of dates that did […]
Let’s talk about fantasies. “How do I get my partner into swinging?”. This is the number one question we receive from listeners. We invited Dr. Justin Lehmiller, social psychologist and author of the book “Tell Me What You Want” to join us to talk about sexual fantasies, how to talk to your partner about your […]
Our First Four-way! Our first four-way … podcast, that is! Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly – our playmates and quarantine couple – join us for a round table discussion about playdates, pressure, and performance in the lifestyle. The four of us share some sexy, some serious, some fun, and funny stories and talk about the different times […]
A paradigm shift, according to the dictionary, is “an important change that happens when the usual way of thinking about or doing something is replaced by a new and different way”. We spent five days at the “largest open-relationship lifestyle event” in the US in 2018; five days that changed our entire concept of what […]
The naughty adventures continue when these two new swingers attend the “largest open-relationship lifestyle event” in the US. Each day held new surprises, new experiences, new screw-ups and new friends! We credit this experience as a defining moment in creating and shaping our entire lifestyle journey. Part 2 of this 3 part series: Sparks fly […]
Newbie Swingers take on NOLA Two newbie swingers travel to “the largest open-relationship lifestyle” event in the US in New Orleans. We didn’t know what to expect or what we were doing. The experience ended up changing our entire perspective of what our lifestyle journey would look like. Join us as we share our […]
Learning when to slow down, when to step back and when to say “WHEN!” Even savvy Swingers can’t always avoid drama. In situations when things may not be going exactly as planned, just realizing when to slow down, when to step back and knowing when to say “when” can help keep you from stepping on […]
Sexual swinging vs. social swinging Four months into our lifestyle journey we began to explore and understand our desire to have a deeper, emotional connection with our swinging partners. We dubbed it Sexual Swinging and Social Swinging. Sexual swinging is more about the physical sex: you go to a club, find a couple, have sex […]