A respectful conversation about opening a relationship starts with clarity, timing, and reassurance. This guide explains how to bring it up, avoid common mistakes, and handle the response with care.
Author Archives: Myrina
This article explains what adult lifestyle travel events are, how to choose the right one, and what first-timers can expect. It also shares practical travel tips, common mistakes to avoid, and answers common beginner questions.
This article breaks down the most important rules for couples who want to start swinging, from boundaries and communication to safety and aftercare. It emphasizes slow, honest, relationship-first decision-making.
A friendly guide for couples who want to meet other lifestyle couples with confidence, clarity, and respect. The article covers mindset, venues, conversation tips, boundaries, and FAQ answers.
A beginner-friendly swinger resort should feel social, respectful, and low pressure. This guide explains what to look for, what to avoid, and how to make your first trip easier and more enjoyable.
The 2023 Kings and Queens of Naughty N’awlins return Phoenix, Myrina, Crimson, and Tristan are the foursome of swinging kinksters, or kinky swingers, that makeup Swinky Life. With varying degrees of experience in the swinger, kink, and rope communities, Swinky Life was created with one main goal in mind: to bridge the gap between the […]
After returning home, we wanted to write a team blog post about our experiences. Phoenix and I both wrote our own blogs first and then began to work to blend them. We quickly realized we both have our own voices and opinion and chose to each publish our own, and point our readers to the […]
“Part of the adventure in life is not always knowing what’s going to happen next, and the next part may be grander than your original plan. The key to enjoying the journey is being open to the unknown.”— Kristine Carlson You never know where life is going to lead you. When Tristan and I started […]
If you’ve been listening to our podcast for a while, you’ve heard our After Party episodes and know that we share a lot of our lives with Phoenix Phyre & Crimson Dragonfly. We don’t talk about that relationship too much in our podcast, yet; the story will come out, in full, over time, in our […]
Our First Four-way! Our first four-way … podcast, that is! Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly – our playmates and quarantine couple – join us for a round table discussion about playdates, pressure, and performance in the lifestyle. The four of us share some sexy, some serious, some fun, and funny stories and talk about the different times […]










