The 2023 Kings and Queens of Naughty N’awlins return Phoenix, Myrina, Crimson, and Tristan are the foursome of swinging kinksters, or kinky swingers, that makeup Swinky Life. With varying degrees of experience in the swinger, kink, and rope communities, Swinky Life was created with one main goal in mind: to bridge the gap between the […]
After returning home, we wanted to write a team blog post about our experiences. Phoenix and I both wrote our own blogs first and then began to work to blend them. We quickly realized we both have our own voices and opinion and chose to each publish our own, and point our readers to the […]
“Part of the adventure in life is not always knowing what’s going to happen next, and the next part may be grander than your original plan. The key to enjoying the journey is being open to the unknown.”— Kristine Carlson You never know where life is going to lead you. When Tristan and I started […]
If you’ve been listening to our podcast for a while, you’ve heard our After Party episodes and know that we share a lot of our lives with Phoenix Phyre & Crimson Dragonfly. We don’t talk about that relationship too much in our podcast, yet; the story will come out, in full, over time, in our […]
Our First Four-way! Our first four-way … podcast, that is! Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly – our playmates and quarantine couple – join us for a round table discussion about playdates, pressure, and performance in the lifestyle. The four of us share some sexy, some serious, some fun, and funny stories and talk about the different times […]
A paradigm shift, according to the dictionary, is “an important change that happens when the usual way of thinking about or doing something is replaced by a new and different way”. We spent five days at the “largest open-relationship lifestyle event” in the US in 2018; five days that changed our entire concept of what […]
The naughty adventures continue when these two new swingers attend the “largest open-relationship lifestyle event” in the US. Each day held new surprises, new experiences, new screw-ups and new friends! We credit this experience as a defining moment in creating and shaping our entire lifestyle journey. Part 2 of this 3 part series: Sparks fly […]
Alternative lifestylers should be the last to embrace a cancel culture mentality. News broke this week about the COVID outbreak occurring amongst some of the attendees of the Naughty N’awlins event last month. To be totally honest, I was not at all surprised; however, I am taken aback by the backlash from others WITHIN my […]
Newbie Swingers take on NOLA Two newbie swingers travel to “the largest open-relationship lifestyle” event in the US in New Orleans. We didn’t know what to expect or what we were doing. The experience ended up changing our entire perspective of what our lifestyle journey would look like. Join us as we share our […]
Learning when to slow down, when to step back and when to say “WHEN!” Even savvy Swingers can’t always avoid drama. In situations when things may not be going exactly as planned, just realizing when to slow down, when to step back and knowing when to say “when” can help keep you from stepping on […]