If you’ve been listening to our podcast for a while, you’ve heard our After Party episodes and know that we share a lot of our lives with Phoenix Phyre & Crimson Dragonfly. We don’t talk about that relationship too much in our podcast, yet; the story will come out, in full, over time, in our […]
Our First Four-way! Our first four-way … podcast, that is! Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly – our playmates and quarantine couple – join us for a round table discussion about playdates, pressure, and performance in the lifestyle. The four of us share some sexy, some serious, some fun, and funny stories and talk about the different times […]
A paradigm shift, according to the dictionary, is “an important change that happens when the usual way of thinking about or doing something is replaced by a new and different way”. We spent five days at the “largest open-relationship lifestyle event” in the US in 2018; five days that changed our entire concept of what […]
The naughty adventures continue when these two new swingers attend the “largest open-relationship lifestyle event” in the US. Each day held new surprises, new experiences, new screw-ups and new friends! We credit this experience as a defining moment in creating and shaping our entire lifestyle journey. Part 2 of this 3 part series: Sparks fly […]
Alternative lifestylers should be the last to embrace a cancel culture mentality. News broke this week about the COVID outbreak occurring amongst some of the attendees of the Naughty N’awlins event last month. To be totally honest, I was not at all surprised; however, I am taken aback by the backlash from others WITHIN my […]
Newbie Swingers take on NOLA Two newbie swingers travel to “the largest open-relationship lifestyle” event in the US in New Orleans. We didn’t know what to expect or what we were doing. The experience ended up changing our entire perspective of what our lifestyle journey would look like. Join us as we share our […]
Learning when to slow down, when to step back and when to say “WHEN!” Even savvy Swingers can’t always avoid drama. In situations when things may not be going exactly as planned, just realizing when to slow down, when to step back and knowing when to say “when” can help keep you from stepping on […]
Last weekend we all just wanted to get away. Out of town. No kids, no pets, no housework, no yardwork, no responsibilities. But where could we go and what could we do that would feel like, at least a little bit, of a “naughty” mini-vacation? A challenge for four lifestyle adults who are still very […]
Sexual swinging vs. social swinging Four months into our lifestyle journey we began to explore and understand our desire to have a deeper, emotional connection with our swinging partners. We dubbed it Sexual Swinging and Social Swinging. Sexual swinging is more about the physical sex: you go to a club, find a couple, have sex […]
Our swinging adventures really take off in this episode! We were about 4 months into our journey and had jumped in to our new lifestyle with both feet! In this episode we discuss our first visits to Caliente – a local clothing-optional resort that embraces the lifestyle community – and find out why we now consider […]